Dating and relationships have always been hard. In this day and age, however, they can sometimes seem impossible. Particularly women say that they can’t find a good man. They lament over the guys that they say are stuck in childhood, not taking responsibility for their lives. They complain about the men they call “nice guy, push-over” types, who don’t stir passionate feelings.
They also have difficulty with men they label attractive “jerks”, who disrespect them, ignore their needs, and break their hearts.
There are three types of love which are common with women nowadays. They are lust, attachment, and attraction. Each of these types of love can have very different origins and be independently expressed for different people.
For example, one woman might find that she lusts after her partner, is attracted to him, and securely attached. Another woman might lust after one man, be attracted to a second, and feel comfortable and attached to her partner only.
However, there are a few texts and techniques which can be used in order to make a guy fall in love with you. But there are a few rules that a woman must keep in mind before using the techniques. These are the preludes to a good conversation where the guy might actually end up liking you. The pointers for these are as follows:
Re-read your messages before sending it, as it helps you to rectify the small grammatical errors that you might make in your message.
Use visual languages, as it helps you to uplift the nature of the conversation. If the guy can visualize your message then he will be interested in keeping the conversation going.
Leave him wanting more. If you answer all his queries at once, he might not be interested in texting you back again.
Try to excite him and don’t send boring messages.
Always stay positive. Pessimism and negativity should be avoided while having a good conversation.
Texting has become one of the most popular forms of communication and can tell you a lot more about a guy’s personality than you may realize. A subtle shift seems to be occurring in today’s dating relationships and it warrants our attention.
Technology that once supplemented relationship development is now, it seems, taking on a larger role in relationship formation and maintenance. Discussed below are five texts which will make a guy fall in love with you and form the basis of a very good relationship as well:
1. The ‘thinking about you’ text
In order to use this text, you should know the guy for at least some time, as it will give you a good idea about what kind of person he actually is. This is very simple and basic. Whenever the guy gets a message from you, he should smile and be happy. You can text him saying that you just saw something while walking down the road, or listened to a certain song, and it reminded you of him.
2. The ‘drive me wild’ text
Sex is an important factor in a relationship and you need to give the guy what he wants. There are certain things that you want the guy to do you while in bed but whenever you get the chance to tell him that, you shy away. Texting the guy about all those things makes it easier for you and makes the guy go crazy for you too. The more detailed it is, the better he can visualize it and trust that it will drive him crazy, in a good way of course.
3. The ‘I love your …’ text
Men don’t get as many compliments as women. They are also human beings and they long for it too. People think that men don’t desire compliments, but that is far from the truth. Take out time and text your guy about the things that you like about him. It can be his hair, his looks, his emotional attributes etc.
4. The ‘recognition reminder’ text
Recognize the things that he does for you. You should learn how to appreciate his efforts. If you don’t compliment the effort the guy is putting in to be with you, then you might lose him.
5. The ‘memory mover’ text
This text is not about ‘him’. It is about ‘us’. This means that it’s time to focus on you both as a couple. You should text him about the good times you had together and how you long for more memories of you both sharing beautiful moments together.